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Question: May I move in with another adult without my parents' permission?

Answer: When you are 18 years of age you may move in where and with who you wish. Before you turn 18, your parents have the right to control you and the duty to support you in most states, certainly in Arizona. The right of control may not be abused by parents, and may be lost if it is abused. However, a court will not stop a parent from controlling a child unless it can be shown that the parent is doing something wrong.

A parent has the right to tell you where you may and may not live. Indeed, if a parent doesn't exercise proper control over a child, the child can be judged dependent and the state will take over and tell the child where to live.

If you move in with another adult, your parent can come and get you back, and can use the police to do so. This can cause problems for the adult that you moved in with.


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On 04/28/08
lizz from AZ said:
well im 16 . all be seventeen in august. well my mom , my sister and i live with my grandma because my mom lost her job and apartment like a year ago due to going to rehab for drugs. that was a year ago though and she barley got a job like 1 month ago and i've had a job for over 3 months now. she is always yelling at me for the stupidest things and my little sister always gets away with the same things. she pisses me off so much and i need to leave before she gets on my last nerver. what should i do. i dont think i'll be able to get emancipated though. i really really want to move out.
On 04/07/08
Lyassa from NM said:

Well I'm 14 and am living with my mom and her husband.  I am the middle child and get treaed like a slave. I have to do every thing. My older brother gets to do whatever and the same for my lil sister...when i get in tha littlest trouble i get evrything taken away but its all different 4 my big bro and lil sis.. i would really love to live wit my best friend,or my boyfriend..my bf already said i can.. and like i said i get in trouble 4 every thing and i cant run to my father cuz hes in jail most of tha time.

On 02/17/08
Kayla from RI said:
I am a 13 year old girl & i am very unhappy with my life at home. I am a strait A student & excel in almost everything i do, but its not enough. My mom verbally abuses me by calling me stupid, untrustworthy, selfish, moron, liar,etc. My dad says i am a built in babysitter for my mom and step dads 2 kids.I am miserable at home and sometimes i wish i could just leave.I would go to my dads house but i know i would be verbaly abused there too. If i cry then im called a baby and many other things. I would like to move in with my boyfrind & his family, they said they would take me in. PLEASE HELP!
On 02/01/08
a from AZ said:
hi my name is annie and i live with my dad and my stepmom. they are always treating me different. we've recently moved to my granparents house and i dont feel safe there. my dad is never home and my stepmom verballly abuses me i've even tried suicide... my dad does nothing. i was wondering if it was possible for me to live with my real mom... PLEASE HELP
On 02/22/07
Jesime from OH said:
I am 17. I will be 18 November of 2007. I have a boyfriend who is 25 but since it is illegal we don't talk. But when I do turn 18 can I move in with him, even though I will still be a senior in high school? Can my parents stop me from moving in with him?
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