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Question: May I move in with another adult without my parents' permission?

Answer: When you are 18 years of age you may move in where and with who you wish. Before you turn 18, your parents have the right to control you and the duty to support you in most states, certainly in Arizona. The right of control may not be abused by parents, and may be lost if it is abused. However, a court will not stop a parent from controlling a child unless it can be shown that the parent is doing something wrong.

A parent has the right to tell you where you may and may not live. Indeed, if a parent doesn't exercise proper control over a child, the child can be judged dependent and the state will take over and tell the child where to live.

If you move in with another adult, your parent can come and get you back, and can use the police to do so. This can cause problems for the adult that you moved in with.


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On 12/27/04
Cayla from OH said:
I live with my parents and we have money. They will pretty much buy me what i want. But they act like i'm their maid and have me do like all the work around the house. My brothers dont have to do anything really and they still get more then me. All i want to do is move out and stay with my boyfriend but i cant because he is 32. what do i do i'm lost and none of my friends understand me.
On 11/18/04
Brittney from AZ said:
I live with my mom and a over controlling step-dad. living with them is unbearable.  my boyfriend, and his dad love me more than my own parents. Is there anyway that my boyfriends dad could adopt me, without my parents permission if he can proove he has the ability to support me??? PLEASE HELP! I JUST WANT TO BE OK!
On 10/21/04
Jessie from AR said:
I am 17, my boyfriend is 18. I want to move out of my house. I have been diagnosed with depression and I can't stand living at home. My mom and stepdad are horrible to me and me make me want to kill myself. I want to move in with my boyfriend and his mom but they wont let me. What can I do?
On 05/27/04
kristin from NY said:
hi my mother is a psycho and i can't get along with her at all. She abuses me verbally and mentally but social services said that they can't help me because i'm too old if i was 15 then they could. So if i'm too old for them to help me then i should be able to move out to help myself..right? I have a safe place to go but my parents won't let me.
On 05/15/04
ME from AZ said:
dont do it. stay at home with your mother. YOU HAVE A BABY. theres no way u can take care of it alone and ur "boyfriend" might not be there 4 you BYE
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