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Question: I am adopted, and I want to move back with my real parents, what should I do?

Answer: The answer to this question depends on what state you currently reside in, and in what state your adoption took place.

In general, when a child is adopted, the rights of their natural parents are terminated. A child's adoptive parents have the right and the duty to control and supervise the child they have adopted. If adoptive parents agree, an adopted child can move in with their natural parents. If they do not, the adoptive child cannot, and the natural parents can be in serious trouble with the law if they let the child move in without the permission of adoptive parents.

It may be helpful to review the actual court orders that provided for your adoption to see if any rights were granted to your natural parents, but this is unlikely.


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On 06/09/04
katie from CA said:
I feel like my parents that adopted me dont love me and their always saying to me that my birthmom is a @#$%&. Everyone that knows her says shes really nice,and she is. I want to live with her. I was not placed in a good home.
On 11/21/03
amy from CA said:
hey well my parents dont treat me any diffrent then what they treat my brothers and sister .........only i dont think their my real brothers and sister i mean they all look alittle alike they all act alike and they seem alike i dont look like my parents at all im latin like them but somthing tells me im adopted ever since well ever p.s some1 help
On 10/29/03
rahmell from NY said:
im adopted and want to move in with my bological aunt because im getting treated unfair i have been foster care since 1988 and i just found my real family and want to move in with them but what can i do about legal guardianship my aunt wants to be my legal guardian what should i do
On 09/23/03
Firstmom from AZ said:
I don't think adoption is all it is cracked up to be. I made the choice under duress to give my children up for adoption. The "adoption agency" made a bad choice in placing them. We all now have to live with that decision. They should not be in the home that they were placed in. There are many many aspects to adoption that must be considered. Regrets last a lifetime for all involved and the outcomes are not always good.
On 09/20/02
Charlie from NC said:
I am adopted! I dont care what people think about me i like myself my family and thers nothing wrong with that i hope that u will see that in your family and if u r mad at ur family for adopting u u shouldent be.And ur pearents love u and they will always love u.!.!
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