I was thrilled. I had been asked to the prom, the biggest night of the year, by the guy that everyone wanted to date. I was the envy of all of my friends. I couldn’t believe that this was happening to me! I knew that this was going to be the best night of my life.
We met some friends at the dance and started taking tons of pictures. I was having fun with my friends but my date was bored and impatient. Finally he told me that he wanted to leave so that we could be alone. I wasn’t sure that was such a good idea but I knew I didn't want our date to be over so soon. We got in the car and drove around for awhile. Then he stopped the car and started to force himself on me. I didn’t like it and I told him I wanted him to stop and to take me home immediately. He did take me home even though he seemed pretty mad at me. I talked to my parents and the counselor at school about what happened. I didn’t want anyone to get into trouble but I did think it was important for me to be able to talk to the adults that I trust. A few days after this happened we had an assembly on dating issues. During the assembly the presenter talked about the laws regarding sexual conduct. We all learned that certain types of sexual conduct are felonies. (ARS 13-1401-1406). I think it helped to hear how serious this can be. The guy who had been my prom date even apologized to me later in the day. I’m sure he and I won’t go out again but at least we can be polite to each other. I also know I won’t let myself get into a situation like that again.
On 05/18/05 Madi from AK said:
No one asks to be abused or assulated sexually. Keep that attitude up and you'll end up another statistic for women abusers. And, quite frankly, I think it's YOU who should be happy if anyone chooses to date you. And to the person who left the story, it's good that he didn't keep going and that you can be civil towards each other. Thanks for sharing your story.
On 05/18/05 Yeimi from TX said:
I think u did the right thing. Im going to try to do the same thing. Thanks!
Take care
Yeimi
On 05/15/05 M.M from AL said:
i would have punched and kicked but that smart to do anyway
On 05/12/05 Tara from MO said:
I am very sorry that that happened to you. Its really sad when guys feel the need to force them selves on people.
On 04/29/05 alizzle from AZ said:
thats messed up i would punched him
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