Question: My parents are divorced with joint custody but I really don't want to spend very much time with my father. How are custody issues decided?
Answer: In divorce cases the judge makes custody decisions based on what he or she considers to be best for the children. Changes in custody agreements are made only after the parents have formally requested a change and demonstrated that the change is best for the child. (A.R.S. § 25-403).
On 02/29/04 Samantha from WV said:
First of all its not your fault that the divorce happened, Keep your head up, And remember everything happens for a reason. Never blame yourself for your parents' problems. After a divorce, you might start thinking that - if only you'd been a better daughter this wouldn't be happening. Get those thoughts out of your head. Your parents are divorcing because they are unhappy with EACH OTHER...not with you. You didn't do or say anything that contributed to their problems. They're leaving each other - not you.
Be good to yourself
Whatever you do, don't be self-destructive. Now is the time to
On 09/27/03 matt from FL said:
my parents were considerating divorce about 4 or 5 months ago , and then they saw how it affected me in school and emotionaly... then when ecerything went away i noticed some new things ... laywers comeing ot my house , calls from realiters on my caller ID , and the way my parents acted... i over heard them talking one night and they were still getting a divorce and i was really upset... now its finalized and my mom moved out last weekend. i live with my dad... its hurt me mom so much and i see her about 2 times a week what schould i do ? Is it all my fault ? Why do i miss my mom so much ? why
On 02/03/03 Ana from OK said:
i dont know where else to go. my parents have been divorced since i was 6 and i moved away from my state when i was 9. my mom and i dont get along very well. i would really like to go move with my dad but i dont know the child custody law. could someone out there please help me?
On 08/07/02 Mark from WI said:
my parents are divorced.....i love my mom but i dont want to see her at all because she is such a bad mom to me i dont want to see her at all but sometimes i am forced over to her house and then i feel like i am far away from ones that love me
On 08/01/02 rain from LA said:
Look may be you are old enough to make your disions. but you need to ask your self why you want to move and i hope it is not becouse you can get away with more over there and if it is than your doing all this for the wroung reasons. and that is why we have judies so that they can help us relise what is truly going on.Best of Luck!
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