Question: How old do I have to be to choose who I live with?
Answer: The judge makes the final decision in custody cases. Sometimes the judge will ask to talk to the kids and sometimes the parents request that the judge talk to the children involved. Usually, if a judge decides that a child should live with just one parent, the judge will order visits with the other parent.
On 05/19/07 Lyndsi from FL said:
ok so i want to live with my dad, but my mom wont let me she says that if i live with him there will be no parental guidance, but i do well in school and i have a bed time here at daddys also what should i do my mom says theres no option. Do i and at what age?
On 01/20/07 cheyenne from MN said:
i really want to live with my papa(dad) but my mom wont let me. im miserable at her house and i have tries to kill myself a few times, shes aware fo this but doesnt seem to care. is it possible to go to court to live with my papa? and what age do i have to be?
On 09/26/06 riley from Othr said:
I have been living with my mom for 13 years. I tried to go live with my dad but it didnt turn out because I was not ready, Now I am and she wont let me and my dad is telling me I have to go to court when I turn 13. My mom says she won't take me to court . What should I do?
On 07/19/06 Chrissi from CA said:
Im 18 years old, I have been living with my dad for 5 years now, but it wasnt always that way. She kept telling me that I didn't have a good enough reason to move in with my dad and I don't like my stepdad.When you turn 15-16 do you have a say in the courts with who you want to live with?Is it like that in every state?
On 07/11/06 Nancy from NY said:
My niece has been living with my husband and I for 3 months because her mom has been ill. She doesn't want to go back. She wants us to get custody of her. Is this a dificult process, if it can be proven that the mothers lifestyle and home life is not fit for her? She use to hurt herself when she lived there and was depressed. She has finally reached happiness. She has 3 siblings as well. What can I do? She really wants to stay with us.
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