Question: How old do I have to be to choose who I live with?
Answer: The judge makes the final decision in custody cases. Sometimes the judge will ask to talk to the kids and sometimes the parents request that the judge talk to the children involved. Usually, if a judge decides that a child should live with just one parent, the judge will order visits with the other parent.
On 03/26/06 jarrod from AL said:
im 12 years old i have been visting my dad since i was 9 now i want to move in with him bu my mom said i cant i wanna no how old i have to be to choose choose
On 02/26/06 Lindsey from TX said:
My parents divorced when i was in kindergarten, it was very hard for me to understand,my mom raised me and my older sister from scratch on that day foward. My dad took me away from my mom after he gained the courts side. I hated living with him i felt like a babysitter for his new addition to the family, i missed my mom. He got tired of us and we got tired of him, we then moved back to my mom!We have big getting along ok by we're running low on money and we need my dad to pay childsupport like he is supposed to. To get out of paying he wants to take me away again! Am i old enough to choose?
On 01/31/06 Holly from TX said:
My parents got divored when i was 8 and i have lived with my mom. my dad is tring to custity of me and 2 siblings but his wife is crazy and im scared! i want to live with my mom! am i old enogh to choose who to live with?
On 01/24/06 Ashleigh from IL said:
Im 17 and I was pretty much tricked into living with my stepmom and dad when I was 13 but now I really wanna live with me mom agian... is it possible for me to do that bc when I tell my dad i WANT TO HE SAYS NO
On 01/07/06 Nina from CT said:
My parents have been divirced since I was in second grade. I have lived with my mother for all of it. My father has just obtained a house in the town of my residence and i want to move in with him. My mother said that it is in my "best interest" that I don't live with him all of the time. I just turned 15 and i wanted to know how old I had to be to choose which house i wanted to live in without the law on the other side of me.
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